If you are a purveyor of the personals, than you may already be privy to these lessons. If not, follow our advice and avoid these common pitfalls.

Sometimes you just need to focus on the basics. Sure there are hundreds of tips on what to wear, how much to spend, when to kiss, should you bring your dog. But, I say don't fret and just keep it simple, and, above all, don't listen to me.

Sometimes relationships don't work out. The signs can be subtle and culminate after years of being together. And sometimes it can be SUPER obvious.