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Woman Calls Roommate's Dreams Of Being An Influencer "Pathetic"

Sometimes the reality checks can really hit hard. It sounds like this particular roommate though was in need of a wakeup call. With that being said, maybe this woman could've let her roommate down a little bit easier. You've got to be a little bit gentle when you're going about crushing people's lofty dreams. 

Woman calls roommate's dreams about being an influencer "pathetic." | AITA telling my roommate her aspirations being an influencer are fucking pathetic TL;DR: Roommate works minimum 50 hours week and can barely support him and his girlfriend. She wants be an influencer and isn't bringing home any income. After witnessing boyfriend have mental breakdown being overworked told girlfriend her aspirations were fucking pathetic
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Manager Tells Pregnant Employee To Stop Slacking

This is one of those instances when the person involved and the question their asking is so far out of left field that it's genuinely hard to believe that they are in fact a real person. Like, dude. You really have the audacity to give a pregnant woman grief over her energy levels? The fact that they're asking folks on Reddit's AITA section whether or not they're in the wrong should've already been an indication that they'd misplaced their moral compass. 

Manager tells an employee that their pregnancy is no excuse for slacking. | AITA telling an employee pregnancy is not an excuse low productivity? Asshole work an office (due nature our work and our employer are not working remotely right now) where supervise team three people end year is our crunch time, and means my entire team is putting more hours than normal and everyone is expected answer their phones and emails pretty much round clock (Christmas excepted course).
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Man Tells Girlfriend She Doesn't Work Hard Enough For Salary

Yikes. When it comes to the kinds of things that you should absolutely never say to your partner (or anyone, really) this dude just added a new one to the pool. If you have a partner who is rocking a badass salary, and then you proceed to try and knock them down by trashing them for not working hard enough, you are in dire need of a little life assessment time. Clearly, this dude's got a whole lot of toxic nonsense boiling underneath the surface. 

Man tells girlfriend that she doesn't work hard enough for her salary. | r/AmltheAsshole Join u/throwaway862610 1d 2 1 AITA being frustrated my girlfriend doesn't work hard at her job and gets paid nearly twice as much as do? Asshole My girlfriend and both work tech, she's safety validator software, working at consulting firm, and doing network infrastructure support both worked different offices didn't know much about her day day life at work knew she made lot more than 120k my 66k, and she
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Entitled Children Expect To Inherit Dad's Savings, Dad Sets Kids Straight

This dad asked the folks in Reddit's AITA community whether or not he was in the wrong for giving his kids' a stiff reality check. Pretty much everyone agrees with dad's decision to set his children straight. It seems fair enough. You wouldn't want to see your kids waste away a meaningful chunk of their lives, not trying to chase the careers that could fulfill them, because they're operating under the assumption that they'll be getting a big payout from daddy's inheritance later on down the road. If anything, that's just kind of messed up. 

Entitled kids expect to inherit all of dad's hard earned money. | AITA telling my children if they don't grow up and get real jobs, they aren't getting penny die, and then giving them reality check? Not hole ThrowRA not dying TL/DR: My kids thought they'd get my savings die told them no, then lectured them 57M) have two kids, N(30M) and (27F N works part-time flipping burgers, but insists his real job is as gaming streamer claims she's professional' influencer, her livelihood supported by her
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Bride Wants Narcissistic Twin Sister Out Of Wedding

Many folks out there have a family member who just seems continually committed, if not addicted to being the center of attention. Some folks are just born into this world wanting all the attention all the time. If it's a family member, you'll often do your best to adapt to that big personality, but sometimes special, life-defining occasions arrive and you don't want to risk that narcissistic family member making your special day all about them. That would seem to be the case here with these twin sisters. It sounds like the twin sister in this scenario doesn't have a great track record of being selfless at all. For some more juicy wedding drama check out the most entitled bridezillas of 2020

Bride wants her narcissistic twin sister out of the wedding. | r/AmltheAsshole Join u/twindrama543 10h 2 WIBTA not have sister as maid honor after trying outshine my engagement Sorry bad formatting cell phone and throw away account So my twin and have always had this low key competition going on. She always had be center attention. While growing up just gave up and let happen easier than fighting never got have my accomplishments recognized because she would always have something everyone needed
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Daughter Neglects Teeth, Mom Won't Pay For Dental Care

Sounds like the daughter really set herself up for this unfortunate predicament. It seems like in all those advice threads that center on what people would tell their younger selves after having gained the hard earned wisdom, is to take care of your teeth. Unfortunately, this girl had her own kind of wakeup call. Hopefully she'll be able to get some dental credit, and get those teeth taken care of when it's all said and done. 

Daughter neglects her teeth, and then the mom refuses to pay for the dental care. | AITA refusing pay my daughter's dental procedures? Not hole My daughter is 24 years old her entire life, she has neglected her teeth. Her dental hygiene is nonexistent, she would refuse brush or floss her teeth at all, wouldn't even use mouthwash. My first thought she may be suffering depression or some sort mental health issue, so immediately took her professionals. However, even after years doctors, therapists,
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Sister Gets Uninvited From Wedding For Inappropriate Comments

Just because they're family doesn't mean that they get a free pass. Sometimes the very people you love most in this world end up also being the ones that seem bent on spreading all the toxicity that you could ever imagine. If you find yourself in a situation like this unfortunate soul did with a sister who just wouldn't act decent, it really falls on you to make sure that the toxic person is removed from the environment. As hard as that might be, sometimes it's the only way to preserve a momentous occasion. 

Sister keeps making inappropriate jokes, so she gets uninvited from the wedding. | AITA uninviting my sister my wedding she told my fiancèe? My M27 fiancèe F25 has an obvious permanent burnscar an accident caused her mother (her only parent pass away injury. My fiancèe had long recovery 's been 7 years scar is on her collarbone goes down her chest but isn't showing. Unless she's wearing scoop/square tops. She often wears hoodies/jackets cover up. She puts this cream don't know ladies call but
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Daughter Files Teeth For TikTok, Dad Stops Paying Phone Bill

Kids these days with their wild, dangerous, and alarming susceptibility to subscribing to the next insanely dumb social media trend have the rest of the world pretty discouraged. Maybe it has something to do with the natural and unfortunate evolution of social media apps, and the gradual escalation in the nature of what qualifies as a trend. No matter what it is, there's just no excuse for ludicrous behavior like that of what we see in this story about a daughter filing her teeth for the TikTok clout. What else was dad going to do? 

Daughter fills her teeth for TikTok so her dad stops paying her phone bill. | AITA taking my daughter's social media away after she followed dumb trend? Not hole 42M) always considered my daughter (19F be smart and trusted her explore different things on her own without intervention (staying out late, partying, etc forced reconsider this after my latest discovery. She filed her teeth down last year following some social media trend, and without asking my wife or found out last week before
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Woman's Fiancé Gets Her Peloton Bike For Birthday, Fight Ensues

At the very least we're dealing with a situation of clear miscommunication, or refusal from this guy to listen to his fiancé. It sounds like she couldn't have been more clear about not wanting a Peloton bike for her birthday. But alas, there it was come the big day. The tense silence must've been overwhelmingly awkward. Maybe she'll capitalize on the misfortune, and decide to vlog some of it after all. 

Woman's fiancé gets her a Peloton bike after she asks for him to not get her one | AITA pissed got Peloton my birthday Throwaway account So realize already sound like brat. This is most expensive present have ever received my life and enjoy spin classes, but back story is is important here.
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Dad Of Girl Wants To Ask Doc How To Increase Chances Of Having Boy

Man, some people need swift reality checks more than others. This dad came out of left field with his whole bit about wanting a baby boy instead of a baby girl. Even if that were the case for whatever reason, that's definitely something that you keep to yourself and ultimately (hopefully) inwardly reflect on, and proactively work to change that mindset. Naturally, the folks of Reddit's AITA community were relentless with their disapproving remarks about this dad's decision. Maybe it all served as the wakeup call that he sorely needed. 

Dad of girl wants to ask the doctor how to increase his chances of having a boy. | AITA asking doctor increase chances having boy next time? Asshole Found out today at ultrasound my wife is pregnant with twin girls wasn't mad, but let down because already have two daughters and said C'mon an accident only meant say my head but guess so frustrated came out my mouth and said out loud. But fine because everybody laughed asked doctor could increase chances having boy next time, and he recommended
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Bride Demands Destination Wedding Is Child-Free

Weddings are always a ripe environment for dramas breaking out left and right. You've got a couple folks getting ready to tie the knot and spend the rest of their lives together, you've got irrational cases of perfectionism, and you've got family members that should never be in the same room with one another doing just that. In this case, our bride asks the folks of Reddit whether or not she was in the wrong for asking for her destination wedding to be child-free. Most folks seems to take sides with her. The one thing is she might not be able to expect a whole lot of people to show up. 

If you're looking for more juicy wedding drama check out this collection of the year's most entitled bridezillas

Bride demands that her destination wedding is child-free. | AITA insisting my destination wedding be child-free? Not hole After years dating my bf proposed and set off planning wedding. Our families are spread out across United States and there is no singular location would be convenient majority. With this mind chose state no one lives is central all but family on west coast. This location by water and since everyone traveling chose make more 'adult evening, open bar, loud music, no kids.
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Man Brings New Fiancée To Christmas Despite Famous Cousin's Wishes

If anyone out there has a famous relative that they've grown up with, then they've likely encountered many scenarios where they've been forced to be especially mindful of their relative's privacy. Fame can be quite the costly thing in one's life when it comes to being able to celebrate the holidays without having your privacy invaded by mobs of hungry paparazzi, or family members just trying to leech off the money and toys that can come with the fame. In this case, it sounds like the guy's poor cousin was just trying to have a Christmas where he could carry on like he was living a normal life. Unfortunately, the cousin wasn't able to do so due to a surprise guest. 

Man invites new fiancée to Christmas in spite of famous cousin's wishes. | AITA bringing my fiancée Christmas despite my famous cousin's wishes? Everyone Sucks My cousin is very famous. Yes have heard him, and no won't tell who he is call him Terry have family functions (mainly holidays Terry likes them be only family so he can "be himself" and get drunk and pass out on couch and share Hollywood gossip with us, otherwise he feels like he is being interviewed and having everyone talk him or want
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Guy Hides Inheritance Money From Girlfriend

This guy asked the people of Reddit whether or not he was in the wrong for hiding his inheritance money from his girlfriend and her family. The tough part about this particular predicament is that they had a kid together. A fair number of people are suggesting that the guy should try to be transparent when it comes to those finances. 

Guy decides to hide his inheritance from his girlfriend and her family | AITA hiding 135k just inherited my girlfriend and her family? Context: My girlfriend(22) and 23) just had our first child few months ago pregnancy wildly unplanned as am graduate school and neither us were ever interested children
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Doordash Delivery Driver Lies About Tip, Woman Reports Driver

While we of course respect the hustle, and certainly during these hard times, it's just extremely uncool to lie when it comes to how much you've been tipped. This Doordash delivery driver had the audacity to spew a little bit about how they weren't given their tip, and then the woman on the other end of the interaction decided to report them. It seems like she's worried about being a Karen, but honestly it seems like her reaction wasn't melodramatic at all. 

Doordash delivery driver lies about getting a tip, so the customer decides to report them. | AITA reporting my delivery driver? Not hole Last night exhausted work and forgot thaw any meat, so ordered Doordash dinner gave 4 tip on 12 order my food arrived, my roommate opened door as bathroom heard my roomie ask driver "did she tip on app AND DRIVER SAID NO! My roomie gave them few bucks keep by front door situations just like this and sent them on their way got out bathroom asked up and they
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Groom Insists Ex Attends His Wedding, Bride Isn't Down

Nothing like a groom insisting that his ex be able to attend the wedding to get that drama going in full force. This guy decided to ask folks on Reddit whether or not he was in the wrong for his request, and it seems like most folks are of the opinion that the dude is definitely out of line on this one. Definitely a bold kind of question to ask your bride. Sometimes you've just got to leave the past relationship in the past, no matter how much it might hurt. For some more juicy wedding drama, check out the most entitled bridezillas of 2020

Groom insists that his ex be able to attend the wedding, and his bride isn't down | AITA wanting my ex girlfriend be able attend our wedding my fiancée doesn't want her Asshole 28M) got engaged my girlfriend(27F) 3 months ago and are planning our wedding. Now know many our friends can invite and have started making our initial list. One my close friends is right now relationship with woman dated 2 years. Our lives were going into different directions wanted have kids she doesn't, and determined
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Man's Fiancée's Parents Accuse Him Of Buying Cheap Ring

There's a lot of ungrateful and toxic behavior on display in this lover's quarrel. The poor guy claims he's been supporting his family, while hard at work through this historically difficult time, and then when he buys his love a nice ($3K) engagement ring he gets chewed out by her family for not spending enough. Insane. Now above any other time it's incomprehensible that someone would go and pitch a fit about something like that, when so many folks are just struggling to hold onto some sliver of financial security. 

Man's fiancée's parents accuse him of buying a cheap engagement ring. | AITA not buying 10% engagement ring? Not hole My partner and have been talking about getting engaged last year or so have quite good job so could easily afford an expensive engagement ring and if following 10% rule then should spend around 10-15k on ring. However, my parents, sister and nephew have all had covid this year so financially supporting all them while, my sister has lost her job so l'm still supporting her bit
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