Family is supposed to offer you an altruistic support system that is filled with unconditional guidance and love. That's the ideal anyways, but for a lot of people, this unfortunately isn't the reality. Understandably, people grow apart, and sometimes things happen that not even time can forgive, but it's important to be forgiving and understanding of your family and their own struggles whenever you possibly can. This brother probably doesn't fit into the category of someone you'd be able to tr…