Unless you're joining the army or another position that requires conformity, why do you have to change your appearance for any job? Even remote jobs will often require certain hair colors and dress codes. Honestly, it's annoying. You already control 8 or more hours of my day, why do you have to try and control my self expression too? Like, trust your employees to dress appropriately for certain job occasions, like a big fancy meeting with important people, but also don't ask them to completely…