When it comes to finances and fiancées, it's important to understand that you're about to be married and, on the one hand, your finances are about to be completely connected with this person… and, on the other hand, your finances are about to be completely connected with this person. So, you'd do well to consider how this person is perfectly willing to hand out $25,000 to family without reaching a joint decision on the matter, not to mention being willing to use emotional manipulation in order…