We want the best for those that we care about—this can sometimes present a moral quandary… Is it ethical to do something that would be otherwise unethical if it saves said loved one from certain disaster? This can be incredibly difficult to get your head around, providing a much more difficult philosophical dilemma than whether or not someone is wrong for stealing their roommate's cat. The idea of doing harm to prevent a greater one brings a certain trolley problem to mind: Is it wrong to do so…

“I told her it was just a joke but she was pissed and now months after the wedding she won't talk to me”

"Their failure to secure seats together is on them, not on you."

Pretty presumptuous fellow