There are just some thoughts that should never leave your head. Some of these thoughts can be cruel intrusions, but others can be something that you might want to get sorted out. A commenter offered a really helpful strategy for gauging whether we should let a thought out of our head that I think all of us should stop and reflect on before we speak. "There is the suggestion to THINK before you say something. That is, is what you are going to say T rue, H elpful, I nspiring, N ecessary, & K ind.…