It's easy to write a script in your head any time a grandparent is mentioned that depicts them as the storybook ‘benevolent grandparent’ but this isn't always the case. Some people are just a-holes. They always have been and they always will be. True, some ‘benevolent grandparents’ were also a-holes when they were younger and parents themselves, but then mellowed out in their older years. But, some people never change, and a-holes especially tend to fit into that category. After all, it's hard…