I'll bet he let it slide and pretended his name was "Speaking." That's what I would've done. #awkward
FAP means Friendly Adult Presence, right? Me Gusta guy is just supervising his seat partner to ward him away from potential dangers, RIGHT????
Or four-ply. Or eight-ply. Sixteen? Let's not get carried away.
If his headphones are in while you're serving him, then it's both.