This might be indescribable/indecipherable
What do men do after a tough breakup?
Some hit the gym. Some go out drinking with their buddies. Some order an extra-large pizza and watch High Fidelity five times in a row...
Other men write songs about it. It's often said that a majority of all songs ever written are about love. It's only logical then that some of those songs will be about the worse side of love.