The majority of commenters felt that the poster was in the wrong for their expectations and ensuing actions that led to the fallout. “YTA For thinking your friends should pay to go on a trip to Disneyland because you're getting married.” replied penguin_squeak. AidCookKnow offered an alternative take “NTA - I feel like all the Y T A people are glossing over the fact that the friend wasn't REQUIRED to go to Disney. OP told her it was fine if she didn't go. I feel like both parties overreacted th…